Who are you fighting with now?
When you quarrel with your acquaintance, you may try to apologize to him first because you are too stressed and feel uncomfortable about this. Such a way avoids the spread of conflict between the two but does not lead to true reconciliation. Humans live with a lot of patience to avoid conflict and spend a great deal of energy to keep conflicts from escalating. In situations where conflict grows and escalates, people tend to choose to avoid or turn away from those situations rather than confronting them head-on. In order to resolve conflict, each person spends an ample amount of energy putting the people around him on his side. People do not stop blaming their opponents to win fights. In order to gain an advantage in battle, people tend to wield sharp swords of justice at their foes while pointing blunt swords at their allies. This is how the human race has resolved problems and conflicts so far in order to win fights or competitions...